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Let's explore it together. Dave and I share a home, and finances. As our relationship progressed, we discovered the swinger lifestyle.

But I don't fear it. With the help of a therapist, I came to realise that as the years had passed, I had changed. I am so inspired by him! Battling with issues of jealousy, insecurity, ownership, entitlement, fear, ignited pain like I had never experienced before.

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Photo: Supplied Supplied There were lots of tears, lots of pain, which inevitably accompanies betrayal. We usually stay at theirs, but when they sometimes stay at ours, David sleeps with Chrissy in our bedroom, and Andrew sleeps swiger me in my cosy den. The new me wanted to see if I too, could love more than one person at the same time.

John & Jackie talk about getting started in the swinger lifestyle. Though he lost his patience a few times in those dark days, he made sure I never doubted his love and commitment to me. My heart swells with love, and I feel at home, safe, and cherished, by each of them. Frequently, partner. Through loving him, I have learned to reach higher, dare greater, and yes, fall harder; and, get up stronger. The swinging lifestyle is one in which couples – usually married couples – engage in sexual activities with other couples.

Dave has a girlfriend, Chrissy: they have been friends for 15 years, and their relationship became romantic six months ago. When I am with neither of them, I cherish my time to myself, enjoying my own company, or the company of friendssomething I had never bothered to value before. He and his girlfriend Chrissy share a deep, solid, loving connection.

Dave and I have been together for five years we live togetherand Andrew and I have been together for 16 months. I fully embraced non-monogamy; I thought: I can have my cake and eat it too!

It worked well untilwhen Dave came looking for me. We struggled to find a way where we could remain together whilst allowing each other to grow into the best version of ourselves we needed and wanted to be.

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When I first fell in love, it meant choosing one and forsaking all others. But at the other end, the learning swinter growth with concepts like integrity, vulnerability, resilience, and courage; is phenomenal. It amazes me how steadfast Dave has been, through the never-ending tears, through the constant need to process. You honour that same choice every day.

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Both men are independent and strong; they swinber need me, and yet both love me unreservedly, just the way I am. But the joy I get from the fact that the kive are free to choose whoever they want to be with, and they do; AND still choose to be with me, is far more powerfully validating, than any prescribed accepted set of behaviours. It's the same with Dave, it's always a bit scary when he meets a new partner. Andrew, Wye, Dave and Chrissy. I felt so guilty, for causing J so much hurt.

Photo: Insight Insight After 18 months of intense therapy with a fantastic psychologist, books, articles, TED talks, support from friends, forums, anything I could get my hands on, I emerged a little bit wiser, and a little more humble. Loving Dave has brought me face-to-face with some styls big scary demons! This le to things like love, kindness, compassion, acceptance, peace.

I ended our friendship immediately. My needs had changed. Once I moved out, I blossomed. Wye and David. So, in practicality, how does it all work? In my travels connecting with so many people, I have learned so many amazing things: not just about other people, their motivations, and the wonderful diversity out there; livw so much about myself, and the wonderful diversity within myself.

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I wasn't scared of losing him; I was terrified that I would stop loving him. Dave identifies as polyamorous. I have two partners.

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We met and became friends with a lovely couple Dave and his then partner at one such swinger event. I met Andrew on an online dating site in December They don't feel they have half of me, just like I don't feel I only have half of Dave. Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner? One swimger, I am sure Andrew will find another partner, and the uncertainty will be challenging and scary for me.

Then one day when I woke up, heart pounding, from a nightmare of being trapped with no escape, I knew facing the terror of being alone was better than staying. We have such an amazing connection that is so easy and comfortable. Whilst maintaining his integrity, and also respect and commitment to his other partners.

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My life is so full of joy, fun, and laughter. So, you finally realized everything you knew about being a swinger lifestyle," which is a term swingers use to describe their, well, lifestyle. I enjoyed making new friends, and trying amazing new things like having short hair! Being with someone who has such a big heart, with so much love to give, really showed me that love is indeed infinite. Possibly also, a little less of a control freak!

Swingers have sex and friendships with other people, but remain emotionally monogamous with each other.